At Harmony Homestay, we believe that hosting an international student is more than just offering a spare bedroom—it’s about creating a welcoming home away from home. But what exactly makes a host family great?
We asked some of our most experienced and well-loved host families to share their insights. Whether you’re considering hosting for the first time or looking to enhance your current experience, these real-life tips will help you create meaningful connections that last a lifetime.
💬 1. Be Open-Minded and Curious
“You’re going to learn just as much as the student will. Be open to their culture, food, and way of life.” – The Wongs, hosting since 2017
The best host families embrace cultural exchange. They don’t just teach Canadian customs—they’re also eager to learn about their guest’s traditions, holidays, and even language. This mutual curiosity builds respect and stronger relationships.
🕰 2. Spend Quality Time Together
“We always eat dinner as a family and make time for a weekly movie or game night. It makes a huge difference.” – The Johnsons, hosting since 2019
It’s the small, consistent interactions that build trust and comfort. Even just checking in after school, asking about their day, or inviting them on a weekend errand helps students feel included.
🍽 3. Be Flexible with Food and Routines
“Don’t take it personally if your student doesn’t like something. Food is so personal—ask them what they enjoy and involve them in meal planning.” – Maria & Luis, hosting since 2016
Cultural food preferences vary, and students may need time to adjust. Many hosts recommend letting students join you in the kitchen—it becomes a bonding activity and can ease homesickness.
🛏 4. Create a Comfortable and Private Space
“Make their room feel like their own. A small welcome basket or handwritten note goes a long way.” – Anna L., hosting since 2020
A cozy, clean, and quiet space makes students feel safe and respected. Providing basic essentials like towels, desk space, and strong Wi-Fi is key—but the personal touches matter just as much.
📚 5. Communicate Clearly (and Often!)
“Always talk through house rules early, and don’t assume anything is obvious. Kindness + clarity = peace.” – The Chens, hosting since 2018
Clear expectations on curfews, chores, and common spaces prevent misunderstandings. Great hosts are also great listeners—checking in regularly makes students feel heard and supported.
